Self-Care and That’s Not My Job

Have you noticed how more often these days you hear someone say or perhaps by actions alone, “that’s not my job.”? It this what the new form of “self-care” means? Where do you think this attitude comes from - ill-intent or selfishness? Or, maybe that person has had enough because they’ve been overworked or been expected to do more than usual for too long? Do you think it could be because people are disengaged from their job or their life?

The apostle Paul writes, "Instead of each person watching out for their own good, watch out for what is better for others." (Philippians 2:4). Paul called the Philippians to turn from lives of self-centeredness to embrace the fullness of joyful life grounded in following Christ. Being able to translate this message into our daily lives is important.

We now live in a time where we’ve learned how important self-care is and while we do have to take care of ourselves so that we are able to care for others, the purpose must not be a selfish notion of just not serving at all. So, instead of walking away thinking, “it’s not my job,” we should humble ourselves and ask in what ways can we help. Maybe that person is overworked or maybe they do feel detached from their life. With your help, the overworked person will have some relief, the disengaged person will feel more connected and have a new sense of belonging.

We too are called to serve others and embrace this joy of serving and following they ways of Christ. The offer of help and the partnering to get something done is an unexpected sacrifice that will mean more than you know. The blessing will continue to bless others and this is how we continue to share our far-reaching faith.

Marcia K. Gibney,
Director of Recreation Ministry

Christ United Church
A Methodist Community