Many times we make quick decisions and we don’t always know immediately that it was the wrong decision. When we do find out it was the wrong decision, we know we should have involved a greater amount of time to that fleeting thought. However, sometimes we think so long on it that we get bogged down on too many factors that do not really pertain to the actual conflict anymore. As my dad used to say, “Study long, study wrong.”
Often you hear people say they “heard the voice of God” or they had a “gut” feeling when they’ve made a choice that produced the best outcome. This is true discernment, the very tool given to us by the Holy Spirit, and what enables us to have proper understanding to make wise judgements. This heightened level of critical thinking is a true spiritual gift that helps us to decipher right from wrong.
Every day is filled with conflict. Conflicts with people, schedules, as well as an internal battle we have with ourselves. We cannot avoid making decisions and if we do, that is also considered a choice by not deciding. Not all conflicts are negative. Sometimes it’s a matter of how you look at it and problem solve so that a conflict can become two good experiences. Look for the blessings, let the gift of discernment involve the Holy Spirit, and then move forward with confidence in your choices. Make the best of every situation for the glory of the Lord and be at peace.
Marcia K. Gibney,
Director of Recreation Ministry
Christ United Methodist Church